Happy Day After Mother’s Day
If you live in the United States, congratulations: You made it through another Mother’s Day!
How did it feel for you?
Was it utterly delicious? If it was, please take a few moments to bask in the memories and really savor it. Activating this energy and radiating it into the world is a HUGE contribution to all of Life.
And … if Mother’s Day was challenging for you, the Angels and I completely understand. For starters, there is so much subconscious programming around this holiday: how you should celebrate, how you should feel, how you should buy cards and gifts, etc., etc.
Plus, there is massive programming that affects relationships between mothers and their children. And then there’s all the trauma people have experienced on this planet, which affects all relationships, but it affects primary family relationships most profoundly.
And beyond all that, there’s an expectation that you will still be whomever your family members expect you to be, which can pull you out of your peaceful center in a remarkably short time!
Naturally, all that “gunk” can lead to all kinds of weirdness on Mother’s Day.
So first, with your permission, the Angels and I will dissolve yuck from your system, including all of the subconscious programming and stuck trauma that you’re ready to release right now.
Grief and Loss
Mother’s Day also can bring up grief and regrets, especially if your mother has made her transition … or if your child has made their transition.
Please allow the Angels and I to soothe and comfort you now (and always). We are connecting with this aspect of you who’s struggling with loss … meeting this part of you with Unconditional Love and acceptance, and we hope you’ll do this, too.
As you do, you may find that it becomes easier to connect with your loved one who’s passed … if you’d like to.
Healing the Inner Nurturer
The Angels and I wanted to reach out to you AFTER Mother’s Day for another very important reason. NOW is the Divinely perfect time to help your own Inner Nurturer return to her true nature, in loving relationship with your Inner Child.
You can think of your Inner Nurturer as the embodiment of Divine Unconditional Love. She’s the “inner mother,” there to lovingly support, soothe and encourage your Inner Child (and your Inner Sage and Inner Warrior, too).
However, most people have an Inner Nurturer who’s struggling. Perhaps she’s been programmed to take care of others at the expense of self. Or maybe she’s been programmed to be critical and judgmental (all those nasty “mother” or “authority figure” voices in your head!). Maybe she does both.
With your permission, the Angels and I will begin to dissolve all of that programming, so that your Inner Nurturer can return to her true role: being a loving support for YOU.
Over the coming days, simply notice if you hear any of those critical voices in your head or you’re doing any sort of self-sacrificing or martyring behavior. If you do notice this, as soon as you have a chance, take a moment to speak kindly to yourself and soothe yourself with gentle touch … and please do attend to your own needs and desires.
The Angels and I especially want you to know: The process of healing the Inner Nurturer is NOT about beating her up or shaming her! It’s about loving her gently back into harmony, so that she can do her part to create harmony within you.
So, most of all, please be gentle with yourself. You are so worthy and deserving of Love. The Angels and the Divine absolutely adore you!
(with appreciation for the photo by Anton Luzhkovsky on Unsplash)
